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Question: Dating a guy right now and....?

(Posted by: RadOne! on 2010-02-08 21:31:44)

So I'm dating this really nice, smart, weird- in- a- good- way guy. Everyone thinks he's super weird and just a freak. We've talked for at least a month non- stop over text. Also, no one knows we are going out yet. We are giving people a week to figure it out haha. I want to talk to him before class and hug him in the halls and talk to him when I see him in the hallway I'm just so nervous!! I just need help answering a few questions. - How do I get the confidence to talk to him more? - How do I tell my friends we are dating when I know they think he's weird? Should I text my 3 bffs and let other people figure it out? Should I tell the 3 in person? - How do I get more confidence around him and confidence to go up to him when other people are around? I guess I care that other people think he's weird, but I don't want to! Please help me!! Thanks!!

Posted by: the_babelsburg_effect on 2010-02-08, 21:37:40

I would at least tell your closest friends before they find out from someone else, or they'll be hurt. I'd tell them in person, but I know a lot of people would text this kind of thing. People will think he's less weird if you treat him like normal, and especially if you introduce your friends to him and they like him. To build up confidence to talk to him in public, when you think of something you want to say to him, think about how much you like talking to him and go tell it to him whether you're in public or not. That way, you'll be feeling happy about having the conversation and hopefully not think about where you are.