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Question: Single mom with 2 kids & dating ?

(Posted by: * Izzy & Alice's Mama ! :] on 2010-02-08 22:06:47)

Ok, so i wanna get into the dating world again, im 19 & have a 5 year old daughter & a baby girl. once my youngest is a little older i wanna try & get into a more serious relationship. the father of my kids is not in their life for personal reasons. but how do i get back in, i mean its been a while & most guys are afraid to be with a girl who has kids. any advice ? thanks :)

Posted by: Shantay on 2010-02-08, 22:13:35

No time like the present but be careful sweetie. There are alot of asses that will take your situation for granted so be on your kids side. If they don't like him there is something wrong day one. If a child doesn't like a person its a bad person. You are young so just be careful. Just start going out and make yourself available.

Posted by: Y!A Staph Are Racist Hypocrites on 2010-02-08, 22:09:55

Its obvious that you're an easy lay, that will bring all sorts of guys.

Posted by: Happy Hunter on 2010-02-08, 22:10:42

You had a baby at 14 and another at 18? Based on your history, I think dating would make baby # 3.

Posted by: TS on 2010-02-08, 22:13:37

First you have to be solid on what you want and expect from dating. Do you want a relationship or some fun. If its the latter make sure you keep your dating life and family life separate. Don't bring every Dick, Tom, & Jerry home for your kids to interact with. This is not healthy. Don't bring a man around your kids until you are fully committed and he is too you. Other than have fun and be safe.

Posted by: kinzyy. on 2010-02-08, 22:15:01

Wow. the first people that replied to you are fvcked up. they're the pricks that can't keep a girl. my sister is 20 with two kids as well. but i dont thin you can go out looking for that guy.like any guy you meet at a party or some kick back is in it for hook ups. you want aa guy who is gonna want to hang out with you and your kidss. i;d advise you to wait and let the guy find you. (: my best wishes go out to you.

Posted by: itscinnasti on 2010-02-08, 22:16:50

Girl u walkn on a tight rope. u gonna have 2 hunt 'that man' out. b very careful. put ya dotters 1st - b4 any man. other than that, if your head is right, it'll probly be a while longer but u'll b ok. do what u like n teach the babies well.